One of the biggest reasons we don’t allow ourselves to want what we truly want is because we don’t know HOW we’ll get it.
It makes sense, logically. After all, if you don’t know HOW you’ll do something, then you won’t know what actions to take or what to do to get there.
Right?
Except the thing is, the How is not up to you. It never is.
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There are resources out there for every single thing you desire to do, be, and have, the only reason the How for your dream hasn’t shown itself to you yet is because you haven’t DECIDED.
In my early 20s, I was living in SoCal and working at a magazine. It was my dream during college to be a magazine editor, so I was loving life.
But there was this other thing I also wanted to do. It was nagging me day in and day out.
I love fashion, and back then I was super into jewelry and accessories. I couldn’t get enough. I also loved making jewelry, for myself and for people who saw what I made and wanted me to make them something too.
I’d been considering starting a handmade jewelry business, but I hadn’t pulled the trigger on it because I had no idea how to even get started.
So I sat on the idea and did nothing. Until a year or so later when I attended the Landmark Forum and the Advanced Course.
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The new TikTok channel for my upcoming book (@fuckthehow) is thriving. I’ve had hundreds of thousands of views on my videos, and am now up to 10.3K followers and growing by almost 100 (or more) people every day.
I’m having so much fun right now writing this book, and running my F*ck the How program, engaging with people on my TikTok channel, and making lots of videos. I’m finally fully enjoying being in the moment and watching it all unfold more and more every day.
(This is why you’ve got to be clear on your vision, you’ve got to know what you actually want, and you’ve got to give yourself permission to go for it. For real. No holding back.)
It may seem like this happened so easily (and for me, it kinda feels like it did), but then I remember all of the things I’ve done in the past that haven’t worked.
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Last December, I spent weeks launching a program that I was VERY excited about. It came through as a Divine Download and I immediately decided to do it.
I acted as if it was already done.
I wrote the sales page. I connected the payment buttons and made the payment plans. I set up the private FB group and even did a pre-work video so the people who signed up had something to dive into right away.
I was ready. I was willing. And I kept on going.
Even when the entire launch got crickets.
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If there’s anything my journey has taught me, it’s this: TRUST YOURSELF.
And if you don’t feel like you can, do whatever it takes to shift that. Do whatever is required for you to fully trust yourself.
What you feel and imagine and see inside of you is real. Your dreams and desires are a roadmap and feeling good is your compass.
You have everything that it takes to make all of those dreams and desires come to fruition.
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