Stop Fucking Chasing Money

There. I said it. The one thing people rarely say in the online entrepreneur/coaching space.

Most of the time, you think you’re doing something because of your vision or wanting to help more people, but when you dig deep to the core of it, the only thing you’re actually doing is chasing money.

Hiring that expensive coach because she claims to help people make money. Signing up for yet another course or program when you haven’t even gone through the ones you’ve already paid for. Constantly looking for the magical silver bullet solution that will finally open the money floodgates for you.

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble—actually, I really don’t; I love being that woman—but it ain’t gonna happen.

There is no magic bullet.

There is no always-works-every-time strategy.

There is no one thing that will change everything or make the money start pouring in.

Except for this: finally admitting to yourself that you’re chasing money, and then stopping and instead connecting with your actual purpose on this planet.

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Your Purpose Is The Thing You Think It Can’t Possibly Be

Your purpose. Your Why. The driving force behind your dreams and desires.

Everyone has one. But not everyone is clear on what theirs is.

And the funny thing is, purpose is such a simple thing most of the time.

And yet it sometimes feels elusive. It sometimes feels like it should be more complicated than it actually is.

I’ve been searching for my purpose since I quit my day job in March 2012 to turn my writing business into a full-time thing. Even more so since January 2019, when my divorce went down and my entire life was flipped on its head (and I’m so grateful that it was).

For my entire life, my purpose has been there. Right in front of my face. Right inside of my heart. Always on my mind. Never leaving me alone.

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Your Bamboo Season Is Coming

Something a lot of people don’t know about me is that I’ve been in business online for almost 10 years (15 years if you count the 5 years where it was a side-hustle).

And over that time, things have not at all gone how I thought they would.

I thought by now I’d have so many clients I would need a waitlist. I thought by now I’d have so many book sales that I’d be making multiple thousands of dollars per month from it. I thought by now I’d be rolling in the Benjamins and making a huge impact on people’s lives.

I’ve been sharing my heart and my soul, my message, and my extremely valuable content online for free for 10 years. Ten years.

And none of what I thought would be true by now is actually true yet.

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Are You Willing To Receive ALL Of It?

Something a lot of people in the manifestation space don’t talk about is what it actually means to receive the things that you want. But I’m not most people. So I’m gonna talk about it!

This is important. You need to know about this stuff.

A big reason why people don’t get the things they want in life is because they’re not prepared to receive all of it–the good and the potentially bad.

There are always potential downsides to receiving what you want, and if you can’t handle or aren’t willing to handle the downsides that come along with the good stuff, you won’t ever be able to receive what you want. You will energetically block it.

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