And Then You Can Just Go About Enjoying Your Amazing Life

“You should go to bed earlier, you look tired.” “You can’t do it that way.” “You should do it this way.” “You don’t really want that.” “You aren’t that kind of person.” “You don’t come from that kind of family.” “That’s not really right for you.”

Other people’s opinions. For your entire life, you’re inundated with them.

No matter who you are, how old you are, or what you do, know or achieve, there’s always someone somewhere who has something to say about it.

You’ve been taught that those opinions matter and that they matter greatly. More than your own.

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Your Worthiness Is Never A Question

When you feel unworthy on a subconscious level, you will attract things, do things, make decisions to try and create that worthiness externally. “If I have enough external validation, then I’ll be worthy.”

But that feeling of worthiness is fleeting because it’s not coming from inside of you.

So you continue to look for ways to create that worthiness in your external reality: achieve that goal, buy that thing, earn that title, climb the corporate ladder, make even more money, etc. And it does make you feel pretty good… for a little while.

But at the end of the day, it never sticks. It always just feels empty.

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What If You Just Decided To Believe That Life, Success, Business, And Money Only Curve Up As You Journey Along?

When I woke up this morning, God said to me: “Did you know there are mathematical curves that only curve up?”

Now, I’m not one for math, so I grabbed my phone and Googled “mathematical curves that only go up.” What I discovered is that there’s a curve called the Exponential Growth Curve where things start off slow and then shift upward and never curve back down.

The growth of the exponential curve increases over time, and always in an upward direction.

This may seem like an odd thing for God to say to me, but since September 1, I have been deep into some hardcore money mindset work. And one of the limiting beliefs I’m reprogramming is that “all good things eventually end.” Another way to say this limiting belief would be: the other shoe will drop, knock on wood or something bad will happen, it’s always feast or famine, what goes up must come down, etc.

You probably have this same limiting belief, just said in a different way.

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When The Desire Is Strong Enough You’ll Move Mountains With Ease

After my divorce went down at the beginning of 2019, I planned a cross-country trip to visit a guy friend of mine who I hadn’t seen in years. The only problem was, I still had my pre-divorce body.

And that was not a body I would ever let him see me in. My desire was for him to see me and think I looked hot AF.

So I had 45 days to get myself into the shape I wanted to be in when I saw him again. That desire was so strong, it overrode all of my previous bad habits with food and exercise.

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You Don’t Always Find Your Work In The World Right Away, And That’s Why You Have To Keep Going

Right after my divorce went down in Jan 2019, I downloaded the word “Worthy” during one of my meditation sessions. It felt powerful. It felt like something I was meant to do something with, I just didn’t know what yet.

Well, without realizing it, I spent all of last year getting back in touch with my worthiness and with my good-enoughness. And correcting the things and areas of my life that didn’t align with that.

Up til that point, I had been editing books and coaching writers on how to write books. (Shadow work for part of what I really knew I was meant to be doing, which was writing and publishing more of my own books.)

Then this year rolled around and the Quarantine happened, which gave me the time, space and freedom to do something I’d been wanting to do for several years, but hadn’t had the guts to do: burn my old business to the ground and build the business I truly desired.

So I did just that.

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